Help how long does intercourse suppose to hurt?

okay im 15 about to be 16...and me and my noyfriends just had sex for the 2nd time..it hurted just like the first time..how do i knw if my hymen is broken the first time i saw some blood we tried every position missionary position i tried riding him both ways fasceing and not facing him..one leg up both legs up spoon doggly style..but it all hurted so badly..what could be the reason? i can put both my fingers in there and its just fine..but if i try his dick it hurts extremely bad..and i cant get really wet either Plz hlp me..and plz no judgmental answers about how i'm too young and what ever thank you